frAgiLe liFe..

Sorry for the long wait.Today, i'm going share about one of the thing that everyone will go through.It is death.Death of my grandmothers.In this week 2 of my grandmothers pass away.One is my dad's mother(92) and the other is my God parents mother(80+).The leaving of both of them was sudden.They pass away becoz they age.This is life. Everyone dies. So appreciate ur love ones while u still can. Don give urself excuses to wait and wait.In the end, the chance slip away. Later on, Cry also no use.

Dad's mother(ah ma)

She pass away 6 days ago.Her name is YEO CHENG CHUN. My grandma really like to dress up herself.So until,today she she still look young(not much wrikles) and fair jus like her name Cheng Chun. She had a full life.She was born, she grow, grow old and dies.She has 9 good children and alot of grandchildren and also greatgrand children.I don have the chance to see her for the last time coz i'm bz and i was in pj.Dad call and told me ah ma pass away .He ask me to go back asap.The next day i rush back and when i reach my 2 aunt bring me to her coffin. My heart was relieve. She looks peaceful. I thank GOD for taking her away before suffer much for physical body.Listening to the minister talking about her smiles and her life makes me weep silently :'(

To me she was strict to her family.She don like to stay home. For sure everyday, she will follow my uncle to go to outside shop.And she was also somehow lonely, longing for for someone to talk to her. Everytime when out family gather,she was also always sitting by herself. i rmb when i was studying foundation. Every weekend, I will take bus back klang and will stop by outside shop where ah ma goes everyday. So, sometimes i will talk her about my life then in return, she tell me hers. She told me how my dad is young is like, how she tries to earn money for the family and alot more.i rmb my Highest record was an hour. my uncle still ask me wat i talk to my ah ma. why so long.?? :) Then, from then on i talk her when i can.

There ia also one thing ah ma likes to do. It is to hold her grandchildren's hand.U know when someone is old and their skin is all wrikle up. Hers is jus like that..Holding our hands..Everytime when we sit beside her, she will take the oppurtunity to hold hand. i guess all my cousins know this well...I recall once holding her hand when she has some skin prob.I still ask her to go see doc or put some lotion to moisture her skin. Recalling all these memories make me shed tears coz it will never happen again. From i was 1 yr old till 20 yr old, she was always there sitting on her chair giving ang pao to everyone in the house during CNY. But next yr, She wont be there anymore.We will miss her.. i wil miss her..loved her :'(

God parent''s mother to be cont..