Once a professor aske his students:
why do we shout in anger?
why do ppl shout at each other when they are upset?
the students thought for awhile before one of them said:
"we shout because we lose our calm"
"But why shout when the other person is just next to u?
Isn't it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice?"
The students gave various answer,
none of which satisfied the professor.
Finally he explained:
when two ppl are really angry with each other,
their hearts distance.
To cover that distance, they must shout to be able
to hear each other.
the angrier they are, the louder they wil have to shout
to hear each other through that great distance"
Then he asked:
"What happen when two ppl fall in love?
they don't shout at each other but talk softly
WHY? because their heart are very close.
The distance between them is very close.
when they love each other even more,
what happen?
They don't speak-
they only whisper
and get closer to each other in their love.
" finally, they do not even need to whisper.
They only look at each other, and thats all.
That is how close two ppl are when they love each other.
so when you are angry, do not let ur hearts
get distance or say words that distance each other even more.
or there may come a day when the distance is so great
you will not find the path back to each other.
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something that i felt needed to be share out
i shouted
and both hearts lost their way back
taken from joyce loh (STAR THELMA)
